One suggestion I do have is to keep the software up to date
All the Toolset and other plugins are out of date, and often Plugins will also update security features, not only "normal features", so does WordPress.
Often after the updates security issues are disclosed, leaving your site (if outdated) exposed.
That's one main reason to update, the other is functionality and bug-resolving.
Now, about the form
Those are not custom fields (Customer and Visit)
Also I am actually not seeing a "Visit" input, only a "Customer" one.
The other one is "Equipment"
Those 2 inputs (Customer and Equipment) are "Post Relationships".
I think "Visit" is actually the Equipment input, as I can see in the backend of the form, you used the Label Customer and Equipment for the Post Relationship inputs "Units Visits" and "Customers Visits"
As I elaborated before and as you can see in those respective inputs when editing the Form, the available items there can be ordered and filtered, but only by author.
You can order the items in the drop down (Select2 input) by title, ID and date, Asc or Desc, and Filter them by the author (either logged in author or any author).
So basically you cannot apply any other filtering there.
There is also no API (officially) that allows to further narrow down that list in the Select2 Inputs.
You should ask for it by suggesting this as a feature at https://toolset.com/home/contact-us/suggest-a-new-feature-for-toolset/
There are custom code solutions you can use to filter those Select2 Parent Post Select inputs better, but that requires understanding of PHP and the WordPress query, and we cannot guarantee it's proceeded functionality as this is not a public API.
I added such a code example here and you can also see it here and here:
https://toolset.com/forums/topic/how-to-show-in-cred-parent-selector-only-posts-of-logged-in-user/page/2/#post-605405
https://toolset.com/forums/topic/filter-post-relationship-dropdown-by-taxonomy/#post-1220408
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However, that is custom code we cannot assist, in this scale.
I do hope this helps, as I understand the requirement, however there is no "inbuilt" way to do this.
Unless of course, with the forehead mentioned "Views" that populate generic fields, but then you will need custom code to actually update the relationship of the posts according to the posts picked in those generic fields, leaving you at the same spot of requiring Custom Code for this.