Hi Mylene
With extended relationships such as these, you go down the tree by creating Views for each generation, and up the tree by using Content Templates to force the required context for each generation.
So, if you want to display related cocktails and the starting point is a distillery, you create a View to display the spirits related to that distillery (using a Query Filter to set the distillery according to the post where the View is shown). The output section will loop over the matching spirits. You don't want to output anything from the spirits themselves, but they will provide the context for a second, nested, View which you insert between the wpv-loop tags of the first. This second View will display cocktails, and will include a Query Filter to set the parent spirit according to the current post in the loop (i.e. of the parent View). The output section will output fields from the cocktail posts.
You will probably want to delete the default "No items found" text from both Views.
Going in the other direction, starting from cocktails and traversing up towards distilleries, the first step is simple.
When you insert a field—e.g. the post title—using the Fields and Views button, there is a Post Selection tab where you can specify that the field should be displayed for a post other than the current post, including from a related post, which is how you display spirit posts when on a cocktail post. (An 'item' attribute is added to the shortcode that outputs the field, specifying the alternate source.)
You employ the same technique on a spirit post to display a field from the distillery. The problem is that your starting point is not a spirit post, but rather a cocktail post, and so for this to work you must first force the context from a cocktail to the parent spirit, using a content template.
That is described here: https://toolset.com/documentation/post-relationships/how-to-display-related-posts-with-toolset/displaying-fields-of-grandparents/
In brief, you create a content template to output the required fields of the distillery (even it is just the distillery name, or post title). You must not assign this template to anything, but create it as if it were used to display spirit posts.
So if you insert the post title using the Fields and Views button, you would use the Post Selection tab to specify the distillery post related to this spirit, which will add an item attribute to the shortcode, in the format item="$relationship-slug.parent".
Now go back to the template for cocktail posts where you want to display these fields from the distillery grandparent, and use the Fields and Views button to insert the new content template you just created (which adds a wpv-post-body shortcode).
The Post Selection tab is missing when inserting a content template (we have an internal ticket about this), and you will need to manually add the item attribute yourself, using the same format, but this time the relationship will be the spirit-cocktail relationship. What this is doing is setting the context for that content template to be the parent spirit (rather than the cocktail itself), and the fields in that template take that as the starting point for getting from the spirit to the distillery.